Sometimes, one bad decision can have catastrophic consequences in our lives – an affair, an unwise investment, a trust that is broken. But there are other things that undermine our lives from the inside. They are like termites, eating away the wooden beams of a home. There are signs of their presence in the little dust piles that accumulate but you don’t see the full extent of their damage until the beams disintegrate completely. In this series, we will look at some things that are ruining our lives so that we can take action before they undermine everything.